Dear [Love one's name], It's great to hear that you and your partner can find a balance in your schedules and that he enjoys OT! As for my previous relationship, yes, we did have separate beds. It was a personal decision that we both felt contributed to our individual needs for personal space and restful sleep. Every relationship is different, so it's important to communicate and find what works best for both partners. Wishing you happiness and great communication in your relationship! Sincerely, [Your name]